Karla
Hi, My 11 year old daughter has all those too. She is on Ritalin and an antidepressant, Imipramine. It seems to be helping. She can not go with out her Ritalin or Imipramine. You must give them the full dose every day. Please get counseling and learn to deal with their behavior in a way that they will respond to. NOT the normal way you might treat a child, but what works for them. It takes time and creativity. There are "Five Love Languages" that people respond to: 1) Physical touch 2) Words of affirmation 3) Acts of service 4) Gifts 5) Quality time And a book called the same. It works for everyone. Lots of prayer first! God bless you!